A Suicidal Teen: What do you do? (and not do)

Let me tell you about one of my big regrets in youth ministry.

One of my small group leaders came up to me and told me a student kept bring up suicide.  I brushed this leader off and said it is not a big deal unless the student talks about going through with it.

For the next handful of weeks, this leader would come to me with concerns.  I kept not taking them seriously enough.  Finally, after weeks, we brought the parents in on the conversation.

It was clear that the parents were not impressed that they were not told about their student and suicide concerns immediately.

Suicide is a very real issue that you will have to deal with.  Let me give you some advice on what to do and not to do.